Ruth is one of those biblical women that I think we all grew up learning about in Sunday School. As I contemplated a study of Ruth for my next post in my Women of the Bible series, the thought crossed my mind that maybe it was not a good choice, since everyone knows the story already. However I was pleasantly surprised when I opened my Bible and re-read the story. Sure, it’s one we all know, perhaps even by heart, but it is also a story with a lot of great nuggets of truth and encouragement for women in all different stages of life. Let’s take a look at what Ruth can teach us!

Ruth did the unexpected and sacrificed her own needs for those of her family. Naomi, Ruth, and Orpah found themselves in the worst situation imaginable: all three were unexpectedly widowed. Naomi, in an attempt to do what she thinks is best for her two daughters-in-law, makes an offer you would think they could not refuse. In Ruth 1:8-9 she says to them, “Go back, each of you, to your mother’s home. May the Lord show kindness to you, as you have shown to your dead and to me. May the Lord grant that each of you will find rest in the home of another husband.” When they refuse to leave, she makes it even more clear that they need to return to their homes, explaining that she is too old to have any more children even if she did remarry, so there is no reason they should stay with her. She is convincing enough for Orpah, who takes off, but Ruth stays by Naomi’s side, delivering the beautiful famous words of love, “Where you go I will go, and where you stay I will stay. Your people will be my people and your God my God” (1:16). Naomi literally had nothing to offer Ruth, and Ruth knew full well that staying with her meant no hope of marriage or children, but instead would be a life of shared misery. Yet Ruth’s devotion to her mother-in-law is astounding. We have no way of knowing if she acted out of love, loyalty, or whatever else it may have been, but what an awesome example of putting personal needs on the back burner in order to sacrifice out of love.
Ruth gets busy. When Naomi and Ruth arrive in Bethlehem, Ruth wastes no time in providing for herself and her mother-in-law. Since it was the time of the barley harvest, she immediately decides to go to the fields and begin gathering grain. She could easily have wasted time, becoming depressed about the fact that she had lost her husband, was in a foreign land, etc. but that is not Ruth’s style! Instead she quickly gets busy providing for her family! We can assume that Naomi was too old to gather grain, so Ruth takes it upon herself to be the “breadwinner” in the family. It is also important to note that Ruth is busy working, not busy fretting over whether or not she is ever going to find a husband. Although I have been blessed with three years of marriage, I can still vividly remember my single days of worrying about whether or not I would ever get married. I spent so many nights crying, questioning God and his plan for me. I wish I could have taken a page out of Ruth’s book and kept myself busy just doing what needed to be done, instead of wasting time whining about my circumstances. Which brings me to my next point…
Ruth is not actively looking for a husband, and this is what gets Boaz’s attention. When Boaz gets to his field, he notices Ruth and asks the foreman about her. The foreman gives a ringing endorsement, saying, “She is the Moabitess who came back from Moab with Naomi. She said, ‘Please let me glean and gather among the sheaves behind the harvesters.’ She went into the field and has worked steadily from morning till now, except for a short rest in the shelter” (2:6-7). Boaz seems to be impressed by Ruth’s hard work, and asks her not to glean in another field, but instead to continue working in his field. Ruth agrees, at which point Boaz tells Ruth that he has heard about her and the kindness she has shown Naomi and how much she has sacrificed for her. Clearly, her selflessness has made an impression and gotten his attention. Notice it is her selflessness and her hard work that attracts him, not her flirtations or attention-seeking games. Ruth does what she needs to do, and gets noticed by Boaz in the process.
Everything makes sense in God’s plan. My last point is one we looked at in our study of Sarah as well, and I dare say it will be a recurring theme in the lives of all the women we study! Boaz marries Ruth and together they have a son, Obed. Does the name sound familiar? It should, because Obed was the father of Jesse, and Jesse was the father of David – all ancestors of Jesus. I can only imagine the questions that must have been running through Ruth’s mind when her first husband passed away. Perhaps she questioned God’s plan and his intentions. I doubt she ever expected to marry again, and I can pretty much assure you she did not think she would be the grandmother of a king, much less a part of the lineage of God’s Son! But in God’s plan and God’s timing, it all made perfect sense. Ruth did what she had to do: sacrifice her needs for those of her mother-in-law and work hard to provide for them. God took care of the rest, and what an invaluable role Ruth played in the redemption plan for humanity.
Ruth is a woman from whom we all can learn much. Whether we are single and looking for Mr. Right, or married and struggling with doing what is right for our family, Ruth’s example is beneficial for us all. I don’t think we could find a much finer example of self-sacrifice, love, and hard work, all coming together in the goodness of God’s plan.




I think this is the first “adult” book I’ve been able to review here at mere musings. That’s what happens when I actually get a week off from teaching and finally get a library card! Yay!
So I think I am going to label myself a lover of novels about the modern Middle East. That’s actually a ridiculous claim for me to make, considering I have only read three novels by modern Middle-Eastern authors, but I have really loved each one, so I’ll go ahead and take the label! I had heard about Persepolis for the first time a few years ago when the movie came out (which I still have not seen, by the way), but have just now gotten around to reading it. I have nothing but praise to give Marjane Satrapi’s graphic novel. It is simply exquisite!
Sarah and Abraham were able to enjoy wealth, travel, and the company of extended family, all while following God’s call. Genesis chapter 12 tells us that God told Abraham to leave his country and his father’s household and go to the land God would show him. We are not told that Abraham or Sarah asked any questions of God; they simply packed up their entire life and followed God to Canaan. They took with them all of their possessions, their people, and even Abraham’s nephew, Lot. This journey took them to some exotic locations, even as far as Egypt, but they believed this was part of God’s plan and they obeyed. We are not told how old Sarah was at the time of this journey, but Abraham was already 75, so we can assume she was not far behind. Once they reach the land of Canaan, God tells Abraham that the land will be given to his offspring (Gen. 12: 7). Again, we are not told that Abraham or Sarah question this statement, but instead we are told that Abraham builds an altar to the Lord as an act of submission to God’s plan and faithfulness. When I put myself in Abraham or Sarah’s position, I can only think how preposterous God’s promise must have sounded! “Um, God? Yeah, did it slip your mind that I am 75 years old? It’s a little late for offspring…right?” But we aren’t told that any such question leaves anyone’s mouth. Abraham builds the altar and trusts that God is in control. Clearly, God’s call to Abraham and Sarah was an exciting one, but also one that was still somewhat unclear. They simply obeyed, and in the process were able to see new places, enjoy a somewhat luxurious life, and spend time together and with their nephew. Obeying God’s call was their first priority, and because of this obedience they were able to reap the benefits.